Untuk Calon Bidadari Surga, Menasihatimu Bukan Berarti Suamimu Lebih Baik, Tapi Ingin Disurga Bersamamu

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Trading is an active style of participating in the financial markets that seeks to outperform traditional buy-and-hold investing. Rather than trying to profit from long-term uptrends in the markets, traders look for short-term price moves to profit in both rising and falling markets.As a trader, one of the most important things you can do to improve your chances of success is to approach trading as a business. A successful trading business requires a strategic plan that covers your actual business and your actual trading. Your business plan will include things like short and long-term goals, the amount of capital you have available for the business and how you will set up your office. Your trading plan includes the details of trading: what you will trade and how you will trade it. Your plan should be so objective and concise that you could hand it over to another trader and they would be able to execute it exactly.It’s important to understand that your trading plan is not simply a set of rules that you think will work, a list of set-ups that you are somehow fond of, or someone else’s plan. A good trading plan is one that you have researched, tested on historical data, tested in a live market and continue to evaluate at regular intervals.Successful trading involves more than reading a few articles or books, and you should plan on devoting a substantial amount of time and effort before ever placing a trade in a live market. This can be difficult because most new traders are anxious to get in the market. While the research and time commitments may sound daunting, they're a realistic and integral part of becoming a profitable, independent trader.This tutorial serves as an introduction to help you get started trading. For more information, be sure to check out part two of our series, which covers more advanced topics including charting, leverage, risk and strategy automation. Many people who become interested in trading are first introduced to the financial markets through investing.The purpose of investing is to build wealth slowly over time, and this is typically accomplished through a buy-and-hold approach: making investments – such as in a stock, ETF or mutual fund – and allowing price to fluctuate over time. Investors “ride out” the inevitable downtrends with the expectation that prices will eventually rebound and rise over the long-term.After years or decades, the investment will, in many cases, increase in value and provide positive returns for the investor. Long-term returns can be further amplified by compounding through the reinvestment of profits and dividends. Investments are often viewed as a means of building wealth to provide stability and income during the retirement years.While investments are typically held for a period of years or even decades, traders buy and sell stocks, commodities, currency pairs and various other investment vehicles with the intention of generating returns that outperform a buy-and-hold strategy. Trading profits are viewed as income since profits are “taken off the table” on a regular basis (as opposed to investing, where positions are generally left alone for the long haul).Trading profits are achieved through buying low and selling high – and selling high and buying (to cover) low, in the case of short selling – and all trades are entered and exited within a relatively short period of time. This time period can vary from a few seconds to months or even years, depending on the trader’s style. The following chart lists the four primary trading styles - position, swing, day and scalp – with the corresponding time frames and holding periods for each.
Trading is an active style of participating in the financial markets that seeks to outperform traditional buy-and-hold investing. Rather than trying to profit from long-term uptrends in the markets, traders look for short-term price moves to profit in both rising and falling markets.As a trader, one of the most important things you can do to improve your chances of success is to approach trading as a business. A successful trading business requires a strategic plan that covers your actual business and your actual trading. Your business plan will include things like short and long-term goals, the amount of capital you have available for the business and how you will set up your office. Your trading plan includes the details of trading: what you will trade and how you will trade it. Your plan should be so objective and concise that you could hand it over to another trader and they would be able to execute it exactly.It’s important to understand that your trading plan is not simply a set of rules that you think will work, a list of set-ups that you are somehow fond of, or someone else’s plan. A good trading plan is one that you have researched, tested on historical data, tested in a live market and continue to evaluate at regular intervals.Successful trading involves more than reading a few articles or books, and you should plan on devoting a substantial amount of time and effort before ever placing a trade in a live market. This can be difficult because most new traders are anxious to get in the market. While the research and time commitments may sound daunting, they're a realistic and integral part of becoming a profitable, independent trader.This tutorial serves as an introduction to help you get started trading. For more information, be sure to check out part two of our series, which covers more advanced topics including charting, leverage, risk and strategy automation. Many people who become interested in trading are first introduced to the financial markets through investing.The purpose of investing is to build wealth slowly over time, and this is typically accomplished through a buy-and-hold approach: making investments – such as in a stock, ETF or mutual fund – and allowing price to fluctuate over time. Investors “ride out” the inevitable downtrends with the expectation that prices will eventually rebound and rise over the long-term.After years or decades, the investment will, in many cases, increase in value and provide positive returns for the investor. Long-term returns can be further amplified by compounding through the reinvestment of profits and dividends. Investments are often viewed as a means of building wealth to provide stability and income during the retirement years.While investments are typically held for a period of years or even decades, traders buy and sell stocks, commodities, currency pairs and various other investment vehicles with the intention of generating returns that outperform a buy-and-hold strategy. Trading profits are viewed as income since profits are “taken off the table” on a regular basis (as opposed to investing, where positions are generally left alone for the long haul).Trading profits are achieved through buying low and selling high – and selling high and buying (to cover) low, in the case of short selling – and all trades are entered and exited within a relatively short period of time. This time period can vary from a few seconds to months or even years, depending on the trader’s style. The following chart lists the four primary trading styles - position, swing, day and scalp – with the corresponding time frames and holding periods for each.

Dear Istriku…

Kepada calon bidadari penghuni surga yang kelak bersamaku “suamimu” semoga kita dipersatukan di surga.

Di antara hak seorang isteri yang harus dipenuhi suaminya adalah memberikan pendidikan dan pengajaran dalam perkara agama. Dengan memahami dan mengamalkan agamanya, seseorang akan mendapatkan kebahagiaan di dunia dan di akhirat.

Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla berfirman.

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا قُوا أَنفُسَكُمْ وَأَهْلِيكُمْ نَارًا وَقُودُهَا النَّاسُ وَالْحِجَارَةُ عَلَيْهَا مَلَائِكَةٌ غِلَاظٌ شِدَادٌ لَّا يَعْصُونَ اللَّهَ مَا أَمَرَهُمْ وَيَفْعَلُونَ مَا يُؤْمَرُونَ

“Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Peliharalah dirimu dan keluargamu dari api Neraka yang bahan bakarnya adalah manusia dan batu; penjaganya Malaikat-malaikat yang kasar dan keras, yang tidak durhaka kepada Allah terhadap apa yang Dia perintahkan kepada mereka dan mereka selalu mengerjakan apa yang diperintahkan.” [At-Tahrim : 6]

Menjaga keluarga dari api Neraka mengandung maksud menasihati mereka agar taat, bertaqwa kepada Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla dan mentauhidkan-Nya serta menjauhkan syirik, mengajarkan kepada mereka tentang syari’at Islam, dan tentang adab-adabnya.

1. ‘Ali bin Abi Thalib radhiyallaahu ‘anhu berkata, “Ajarkanlah agama kepada keluarga kalian, dan ajarkan pula adab-adab Islam.”

2. Qatadah rahimahullaah berkata, “Suruh keluarga kalian untuk taat kepada Allah! Cegah mereka dari berbuat maksiyat! Hendaknya mereka melaksanakan perintah Allah dan bantulah mereka! Apabila kalian melihat mereka berbuat maksiyat, maka cegah dan laranglah mereka!”

3. Ibnu Jarir ath-Thabari rahimahullaah berkata: “Ajarkan keluarga kalian untuk taat kepada Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla yang (hal itu) dapat menyelamatkan diri mereka dari api Neraka.”

4. Imam asy-Syaukani mengutip perkataan Ibnu Jarir: “Wajib atas kita untuk mengajarkan anak-anak kita Dienul Islam (agama Islam), serta mengajarkan kebaikan dan adab-adab Islam.”

lantas bagaiamana mendidik dan menasehati istri seperti yang di jelaskan pada tafsir diatas untuk jaman sekarang ?

Kiat Mendidik dan Menasehati Istri Agar Kelak Dipersatukan Disurga 

1. Memenuhi Kewajiban yang Diperintahkan Allah Secara Bersama-sama

Sebagai seorang suami yang soleh, ajaklah istrimu untuk taat dalam melaksanakan kewajiban secara bersama-sama, seperti senantiasa shalat berjamaah, membaca al-qur’an.

2. Menasehati Istri Dengan Perkataan yang Baik, Santun, dan Mampu Menyentuh Hati Istri